INFJs believe that there is meaning in every action, every word, and even in every thought. This personality is complex, obsessed with perfection, but also approachable and affirming. They desire to create relationships that are always at their best. This also means that some INFJs look for perfect people instead of trying to create the perfect relationship and that can create some problems for them.
That’s why when it comes to INFJ relationship compatibility, ENTPs or ENFPs tend to have the most success. This is because emotions run strongly in these two compatible personalities and for the INFJ, the interactions of a relationship are like practicing a daily religion.
You See What You’re Going To Get
The INFJ doesn’t attempt to hide anything. They are straight-forward in communicating what they want and they expect the same thing in return. The amount of love that they have in their relationships is one of the most important things in life to them and they expect some level of reciprocation in this feeling.
ENTPs and ENFPs are the best match for the INFJ because they can best see the purpose behind the quest for perfection in the relationship. Where other personality types might get frustrated or feel like the INFJ is telling them that they aren’t “good enough,” the ENTP and ENFP personality types are able to see the love that is behind the actions. This creates a depth within a relationship that is virtually beyond compare.
INFJs See In Black and White
There is a right way and there is a wrong way to do things for the INFJ. There isn’t a good and then a “better good,” so even if outcomes are positive, if it wasn’t the best possible outcome, this personality type is going to feel like they made a wrong choice. They are independent and encourage independence in others and want their relationships to be living, breathing entities that can be self-sustaining.
INFJs can also be incredibly stubborn. They’ll make sacrifices to make a relationship succeed, but it won’t be without a sharp comment. ENTPs and ENFPs are the best equipped to brush off these comments to see the true meaning behind it: that the INFJ wants everyone to be at their very best whenever possible.
INFJ relationship compatibility often means taking a back seat to spiritual preferences, but that doesn’t negate the feelings that this personality type has for people. With enough patience and understanding, a relationship with an INFJ can be a truly rewarding experience.